Agreed. But that is tough to prove beyond doubt in court. She filed an order to comply. He lied . Jury instructions give jurors a framework to help them understand how the law applies to the evidence they've heard during trial so they can use it to reach a verdict. Word to the wise. She manipulates the children because she wants the $700 a month. If you feel uncomfortable about living with your dad you may file a motion for review of child custody. We all hope that if we have kids well be able to raise them in a two parent home not two parents and two diff homes. You are very selfish and I dont feel sorry for you and like childrens services told you do the right thing and if not like my daughters mother you dont deserve to be in your childrens life its about the kids not you. There are numerous actions that interfere with custody but are within the legal rights. While I do understand your feelings, you have to be very careful about the way you express them. He has been seriously going down hill since our divorce 3 years ago. What should I do? I only get to see my 9 year old daughter once a week due to both of our hectic schedules. My friend has joint custody w/ his ex (who is the spawn of Satan) and she is the Cparent. son is scared to tell his dad that he wants to see more of me, much less that Then mediate. If there are serious issues that would endanger the child, prove it in court and you will get your supervised visitation. Can I file custodial interference or harassment or anything to prevent him from doing this again ? Our agreement says that there is no custodial parent but he gets the custodial parent holidays. any knowledge on what to do? My question isIs there anything that we can do with the courts and who has jurisdiction over the origonal orderPa or Tx. 3 months in CA 4 months in OH. I barely get visitation or phone calls. My son even joined in the manipulation by friending me on FB just to block me three months later two weeks after that i received paperwork for court so now I know it was just to get information. Would the fact that my mother having been in contact with my daughter and son contradict the fact that could be a possible abduction? What are my sons rights in this situation? No consequences. Remember these actions are the short term. Legal Services. Legal Aid in Alabama is a huge joke. I was on chemo therapy and I showed at every court date. I dont understand In addition to that, there were numerous times when he wouldnt return my son to custody as scheduled, including a time when he decided to keep him for summer vacation, unbeknownst to me, and I had to go to the cops asking for my son back, they said it was a civil matter and wouldnt deal with it. What can I do if she doesnt reply and goes ahead with the vacation plans? What can I do? The bill was sent to us. Recently though, she has started to be more neutral during conversations, and has even corrected her dad a few times and defended me. So he took the kids for his weekend because he made plans on going out of town the second week. She lives in West Virginia and I live in Texas. First, the prosecution has to prove that the person involved in such activities was a relative of a child. Ive won over every probation officer Ive My ex her family shuffled back to Suffolk County empty handed. and so does the other alienated parent involved that hasnt seen my exs step daughter in over a year! I would ask her what does she want because youll be going to court for visitation what would make her happy. and that we are not a happy family. PDX Mom. The reality is unless you have an advocate that WILL PROVE parental alienation you may not receive anything more than her getting warned unless she has done something grossly negligent and it works the judge into a frenzy. She never answers the phone and has continually interfered with his visitations. That I have been trying to help him with over the last 3 years, he start running away, then got physical with me, skipping classes, and even breaking in our home stealing my laptop, game systems, jewelry. The child has been shot at and sexually abused. She now states that we can only have vistation if we go to south carolina. Im at my white end. Its recommended to seek legal help when the other parent causes invalid interference. If you gave up the kids you will have a tough time getting them back unless the matter gets settled in court. I was the primary parent at the time that enrolled her in daycare. If it doesnt coincide with your visitation schedule it is not his problem but yours. Your very first approach will be to get legal advise and possibly file a contempt of court order. I keep getting the run around on what to do. But mothers dont usually stray very far from their young.. My daughters father has been trying to do anything he can to take her from me since the day we broke up. So I was making much sense . I feel like my back is up against a wall and I cant stay in an abusive situation I think that is unsafe for the children (never harmed or even yelled at only me but still). doesnt include me or their father in any medical or school decisions, One one side theyll throw men in jail for violations of orders, on the other if a mother doesnt follow an order its rare theres any punishment at all. But we thought we were gonna handle this like adults. They couldnt prove it, yet stated what my son had told them. Plus its my weekend with our son. Your case is very involved and complicated. Now he called cps after I sent that text 8/11/17 CPS came yesterday to my home. However, she spoke to me in such a tone as she had never done before, screaming at me that I ruin everything because she and her step-mother were going to stay at a hotel and were going swimming! Life is so cruel. Poor parenting at its finest. You have to allow him to see the child , no choice in that , also he dose not need to see the child often but you can take him back to court to ask for less visitation time, but prob will not be granted it without a significant reason. If you are uncomfortable then suggest that you go to a Chucky Cheese of Mc Donalds playland until as supervised until she can reestablished that relationship again. So, what do you mean got you for custodial interference? And it seems that the woman refusing to take the boy as ordered by a Judge, doesnt respect the authority of a Judge, therefore assuming that she has little concern or respect for the authority of a Father? However, the reason she gave for not taking him was her cancer treatments and she had the flu. 650-34-2254 birth day 10-21-2004 my child the mom Karin M Spears abandoned with grandparent Jack and Janet Spears 1170 E Ellicott Rd. Before the entry of a court order determining custodial rights, takes, entices or withholds any child from the other parent denying that parent access to any child. If you are truly concerned for your children, file with the courts. About an hour & a half later, he called her, screaming becuase he got a letter in the mail from the state, telling him he owes for half of her medical expenses. hIDH];J*"-NK",HO)~llUE"l&KQ?}d!o o?a5S`Z x{EEl\$Y:/ [=ShMHwvW6[.I0JJ1P{.b1:-PQJ*AxS@/ f0R=BG~@}. I have a lawyer filing contempt order but he is dragging his feet and hasnt returned my call. E.N.O. The mother has kept minimal contact with my step son. My stepson said that is we take him back to his mothers he will run away and has expressed this to many other people!! Both parents have the right to maintain a healthy and close relationship with their kids. His dad first of all start seeing him without me knowing it, them he has withdrawed him out of school and placed him in school near him, again without me knowing. Please tell me what we do? This does not mean one parent can tell a child that they must go because the court order says so. Every time they go to visit him, there is always drama upon their return. It was agreed between us for me to keep our son in Wyoming for the rest of the school year due to the fact he is in trouble and will completly fail the second grade. So I know he had no proof. I dont text back unless its directly about our son. Parenting plan only outlines major holidays as we didnt agree on yearly minor ones. They will not represent a man, unfortunately which is an area I am work on in getting legislation to have this matter addressed. My ex wife moved to denham springs Louisiana w our 5 year old daughter! One of those men with which she is living with for the past 6 months+ is her own flesh and blood daughters ex boyfriend whom my 6 year old is old enough to realize that the daughter was with him before. i would appreciate any feedback. Can I get his passport without his Dads signature to go on vacation out of the country? Have the school contact you if your daughter has not been picked up within 15 minutes of release or the end of an activity. Next if the childrens well being is in jepordy file (understand each state calls them something different) a restraining order or an order of protection on the behalf of the children. Instead, he takes him to his moms despite my attempts to tell him that Im supposed to be given the option first. If you cant support your children, to the point youll go on welfare, then maybe you shouldnt have custody you piece of trash. My daughter has asked me to file for custody which i am in the process of doing, Aside from the abuse told to me in my daughters letters and phone conversations Do I have grounds for parental alienation. Hi Josh. I called the cops to report violation of my protection order repeatedly. File custody in FL. apparently he just left the city last night went to houstan, and is on his way to his aunties house in Mississippi. Im sorry you are going through this as I know personally what that is like. Trust me Sweet the police dont want to touch a child custody case with a 10 foot pole. My ex husband does not follow the court ordered custody that was changed by him in 2013 when he took me back to court on on false charges when him and his wife decided to state the person I had watching my daughter was irresponsible and left my daughter alone, They also stated my daughter and her son wete left alone cooking at 9/10 yrs old. There has been petitions and responses filed in my state (New Mexico). Johnson County Kansas Sherriffs office wont enforce Sh*t. Had a paper from a judge that stated ANY Sherriff or law enforcement agency is to enforce the parenting plan from Johnson County kansas court and they still wont do ANYTHING. She has known our location throughout this time and has made no attempt to see my step son, didnt even come to his birthday party in November. I keep reading about the non-custodial parent as the good guy or good woman what about a man who lies about his visitation? and "parent by estoppel status is most appropriate where "adoption is not legally available or possible. Because of my work schedule, which my work changed, i have been having to work saturdays now. She wanted him at her house on the Friday which is impossible since he has school and my husband work and still she doesent care she would still want him there on the Fridays since the court order state Fridays or Saturday morning. This was so untrue. He goes to the after school program and takes my sons out on my days and then returns them. What should you do? He called CPS again & reported that my daughter had dropped my grandaughter off dirty on Friday & they advised him to keep her. In some cases, law enforcement officers may arrest and detain the other parent if they attempt to hurt the other parent. we were divorced in California. Even threatning to change their phone numbers. The only thing in your above comment that is troubling is that he gave your 4 year old PTSD and coached him to lie. I have two question? he went back to missouri and didnt tell noone. best of luck and dont be to heartbrokendid you really want someone who always ignored you an did not see the true treasure before him? (Phone book or court referral is a start on learning about how this works. I went to the police station to pick up the actual reports (more details)turns out when he got caught the second time, he admitted he was stealing things for herionand while I was up there I got the police report where is girlfriend got nailed with the needle, and the spoonlord a behold, it had his addressI gave it to my attorney, and was able to get his every other weekend visitation knocked down to supervised visitationwhat tops it all of is that HIS mother is not allowed to be the supervisor at all, since she has lied to the courts, and me regarding his drug use BTW his visitation was modified prior the the supervised visitsin the beginning it was Thursday to Friday one week, then the next week it was Friday to Sundaybut since the ex was not helping our son with his homework from school the days he had him school daysI got a written statement from his teacher on which days his homework was not getting done. Before the divorce was even final. 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